Why we keep mistaking chaos for love and calling it connection.

We talk about the addiction no one admits to — the need to be chosen. These episodes unpack how childhood wounds shape adult obsession, why we confuse intensity for intimacy, and how to stop chasing people who feel like home because they remind you of pain. The benefit? You learn to break the cycle — to love without losing yourself, to choose peace over patterns, and to finally feel safe inside your own skin.